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Today I want to highlight one of my new role models – and yeah, I’m surprised too that it’s a Bollywood superstar.  A typical Bollywood actor has the winning smile, charisma, lines of girls screaming his name, and a few sports teams or Pepsi ads to keep the bank fat.
Sometimes I get curious about actors.  After reading some book on time management or another self-help title by a best-selling author, I wonder, “What does all of this stuff mean to celebs?”  To us on the outside, it just seems like they smile for the camera.  I admit that sometimes I don’t realize acting is a proper job and these are normal people too.
Regardless, if there is a Bollywood superstar stereotype, there is one man who doesn’t fit in, yet still rakes in the most cash for his movies.  I’m talking about Aamir Khan.  All of you know of his outstanding work in 3 Idiots, which has become the highest-grossing film in Bollywood, Ghajini his last and previously highest-grossing Bollywood film, and Taare Zameen Par, a movie shedding light on the talents of autistic children and their place in the Indian education system.
Although Khan has done atypical films about un-sexy topics, he has gained a huge following, commercial success, and widespread respect from the Indian and International audience for the work he has done.  Recently, I watched lots of interviews of Khan carried out by reputable agencies like CNN and gained an idea for how he thinks and makes decisions.
In seeing him express his views, you see that Aamir Khan is actually like a real human trying to make the best movie he can with hard work, in contrast to the distance and surreality that surrounds other stars.  His words emit the passion he has for cinema and demonstrate that he is really committed to showing his best as an artist.
As we saw in Ghajini, he was willing to go from being a short, thin guy which the audience had seen for over 15 years to working out for 12 months and becoming superbly built for an action role – only to lose it to suit his next role!  He does only one movie at a time (unlike the standard 3-4 releases per year from other stars) to fully dedicate himself to one character and master his craft for each project.  Khan says he takes months to decide which film he will sign and picks work that excites him and that he believes in.
The thing that I am most impressed about is how humble and real he stays despite being so highly acclaimed and successful.  Through Aamir Khan, I am able to appreciate that the best philosophy is to love your work, be so passionate about it that you’re willing to go to your limits for it, and take the focus off “success” because that will follow when you strive for excellence.
These are not new concepts and they’re written in countless books, echoed by countless number of people.  What’s unique here is that it so well fits in with a celebrity, a group of people who as I group I thought were disconnected from these ideas in the world.
There is a lot more I would like to say about the qualities I admire in Aamir Khan, but I encourage you to find out more about him yourself – it’s like getting the same message you get in quotes and books on life, but with a great example in an entertaining way!
@vgupta11

Posted via email from Vaibhav Gupta, put simply.

I've been running a business for 19 years.  When I started it off, progress was slow…most of my time was spent researching my market and learning about how things work.  10 years into the business, things started picking up, and 4 years later, it just took off.  Suddenly everyone wanted to do business with us!  Our turnover was great and in a matter of time, angel investors came knocking on our door.  This is the story of Me, Incorporated.

I say "we" and "us" because luckily I wasn't running this business alone.  Right before Me Inc. started, two people had done some other business, and became the Executive Vice Presidents of this one (ie. my parents).  Out of all of the things in the world, when it comes to making decisions about my life, my EVPs are my most valuable resource.

So as things in the business world go, so they do in my life as well.  When decisions need to be made, executives gather in the boardroom.  When my life decisions need to be made, my parents and I (and sometimes my sister, when she isn't busy becoming a doctor), gather in the family car.  That's right, the family car.  We go on a drive, flick the switch on in our minds, and talk about whatever is on my mind and discuss the path I should take moving forward.  I swear this is the secret of whatever little success I have had to date.

Today we did exactly the same thing.  With my own second year Medical exams in precisely one week, I decided it was time to plan the next 5 years of my life.  Call me insane, but hey, I love myself.  We went to our signature Tim Horton's coffee shop, and I started on my rant of ambitions I have and things I want to do in my life.  My parents helped me sieve through my thoughts and extract the ideas that would give me the most fulfillment and also still keep me on track to become a doctor.  (They have a tough job, because sometimes I'm very impractical, and decide I want to deliver youth leadership seminars around the world.  "You're on a demanding course, and Vaibhav, if you want to become a doctor, you have to focus on your studies!", they say.)  I decide to listen to them because I love medicine, I love my course, and I do want to succeed in it!

So the message here is, sometimes we must think of ourselves as a business.  Not in the way where our main goal is to make money, but in the sense that we must bring business efficiency into our life.  Just as business people hold meetings to discuss ideas and make decisions, sometimes we have to hold meetings for ourselves.  It is very helpful to have around you people who only think about your best interest, and help you decide the course of your life.

Try this concept and you'll see the result yourself.  I came out of the meeting feeling more assured about the direction I am heading in.  One of the outcomes of this meeting was keeping up my posts.  I have prioritized writing on this page because it gives me a chance to share some of my views, and maybe one of you will benefit from that!  Now I must balance my other priority – succeeding in school – by ending this post and going back to my books!!

Expect a post tomorrow (make that later today!) because I will make time for you, but wish me luck in my studying…there is so much to cover and my first exam is next Wednesday!

Posted via email from Vaibhav Gupta, put simply.

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