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Today I want to highlight one of my new role models – and yeah, I’m surprised too that it’s a Bollywood superstar.  A typical Bollywood actor has the winning smile, charisma, lines of girls screaming his name, and a few sports teams or Pepsi ads to keep the bank fat.
Sometimes I get curious about actors.  After reading some book on time management or another self-help title by a best-selling author, I wonder, “What does all of this stuff mean to celebs?”  To us on the outside, it just seems like they smile for the camera.  I admit that sometimes I don’t realize acting is a proper job and these are normal people too.
Regardless, if there is a Bollywood superstar stereotype, there is one man who doesn’t fit in, yet still rakes in the most cash for his movies.  I’m talking about Aamir Khan.  All of you know of his outstanding work in 3 Idiots, which has become the highest-grossing film in Bollywood, Ghajini his last and previously highest-grossing Bollywood film, and Taare Zameen Par, a movie shedding light on the talents of autistic children and their place in the Indian education system.
Although Khan has done atypical films about un-sexy topics, he has gained a huge following, commercial success, and widespread respect from the Indian and International audience for the work he has done.  Recently, I watched lots of interviews of Khan carried out by reputable agencies like CNN and gained an idea for how he thinks and makes decisions.
In seeing him express his views, you see that Aamir Khan is actually like a real human trying to make the best movie he can with hard work, in contrast to the distance and surreality that surrounds other stars.  His words emit the passion he has for cinema and demonstrate that he is really committed to showing his best as an artist.
As we saw in Ghajini, he was willing to go from being a short, thin guy which the audience had seen for over 15 years to working out for 12 months and becoming superbly built for an action role – only to lose it to suit his next role!  He does only one movie at a time (unlike the standard 3-4 releases per year from other stars) to fully dedicate himself to one character and master his craft for each project.  Khan says he takes months to decide which film he will sign and picks work that excites him and that he believes in.
The thing that I am most impressed about is how humble and real he stays despite being so highly acclaimed and successful.  Through Aamir Khan, I am able to appreciate that the best philosophy is to love your work, be so passionate about it that you’re willing to go to your limits for it, and take the focus off “success” because that will follow when you strive for excellence.
These are not new concepts and they’re written in countless books, echoed by countless number of people.  What’s unique here is that it so well fits in with a celebrity, a group of people who as I group I thought were disconnected from these ideas in the world.
There is a lot more I would like to say about the qualities I admire in Aamir Khan, but I encourage you to find out more about him yourself – it’s like getting the same message you get in quotes and books on life, but with a great example in an entertaining way!
@vgupta11

Posted via email from Vaibhav Gupta, put simply.

I found this idea to be quite profound.  I was just sitting at my desk doing some work when I looked over at a notepad.  You know those times when the most everyday thing happens, but it's just really meaningful or significant for you?  That's kind of what this was like for me.

It was just a blank piece of paper, and I started thinking about the endless possibilities this paper presents to me.  Honestly, think about it.  You have a piece of paper, and you can do the most simple thing on it, like doodling, or the most important thing in your life, like say writing lyrics to the song that makes you the next big hit.  Seriously, think if you had paper in front of you, what could you really write on it or do with it, and what could that lead to?

  • scrunch it up into a ball for an entertaining basketball game with your garbage can when you don't want to study
  • make a paper airplane and throw it at your friend so he can't study
  • draw something, fold it up and make it into a card, and give it to someone for no reason
  • revise (oh god.)
  • make a shopping list (or a wish list, and stick it up in front of you like i did – 3 out of 4 things crossed out, one to go!)

Okay so that was just random, but no, when this happened, I was thinking a bit deeper and was really beginning to appreciate where this paper could lead me.  Then I started to think that this piece of paper is a lot like our life.  We can do whatever we want, we can lead ourselves anywhere we choose, and it's in our control every day we wake up.

The past won't do much today.  If it's good, take confidence from it to determine your future, don't rely on it to propel you forwards forever.  If it's not so good, keep this blank piece of paper in mind…don't re-write the same story every day – just choose what you want, and move towards it.  I know the past is still meaningful, it is still a part of us, but it's really what we do day-to-day that reflects on who we are.

Choose the script you write for yourself, the picture you draw for yourself, or the shape you make for yourself, because at the start and end of every day, we're all as simple as a blank piece of paper.  And the possibilities are endless.

@vgupta11

Posted via email from Vaibhav Gupta, put simply.

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